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Male Performer Chat: Male models should not promise a cum show if they know they will not deliver!
Guys please do not tell your customers that you will give them a cum show when you discuss it with them before a private show and during a live private show. If you don’t feel that you can cum and if you cummed already multiple time in one day just tell your customer that you are unable to deliver at the moment. That’s so much better than lying to your customer and telling them that you will cum and then not doing it. Faking an orgasm is the worst move you can possibly try in live private chat so it is better to just be honest with your customers. Your male customers will be able to tell when your faking as a man can not hide an orgasm. Because we all know a man cums during an orgasm. Just be honest with your customers concerning this type of request and you will have more satisfied customers that will probably have more repeat shows with you. It is better to be honest if you can’t deliver at the moment than to lie or fake an orgasm and lose a valuable customer forever.
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Also it is better to let your customer know whether your comfortable to cum or not before a private show starts especially if you cummed lots of times during that day already. Most male customers will understand this since we are all familiar from the experience of owning male equipment ourselves! Better to be honest about cum request before a show starts if you would like to retain your valuable customers.
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Yes, I have seen this far too often. Always be careful online there are lots of model scams.
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I have also seen a few fake cums that involved liquid "cum." Model tries to sneak a proper amount of white lotion and let it "squirt out" at the right moment (when credits are about to zero). The first one was actually sexy because of the model's gymnastics and incredible haunches, but the other two were just sad. Don't pull that shit if you expect repeat business.
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If a model agrees to a cum show in pvt with you, then he should not have a problem letting you see him when he cums. Lay back on the bed or sofa or whatever and jerk so that we can see the cum as it erupts from you and make sure that the camera gets the entire thing or it just feels cheapen, and worse a waste of time and money. And then we can't get our money back.
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graybearphx
3/19/21 @ 5:22pm
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Location: Phoenix, Arizona
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Not to EXCUSE scammers, but realize that a large percentage of male models, including those who list themselves as gay or bisexual, are actually straight, and just playing a role. Many of them successfully do a CUM show while (secretly) watching straight porn on another screen, but it is not always easy, especially when the user is demanding constant responses to his "Oh, fuck me / Let me suck you" typed comments or (worse yet) cam-to-can explicit video.
Many of these are understandably reluctant to tell you "I'm straight dude, so please let me concentrate..." And they should not accept a PVT for a cum show unless they truly THINK they will be successful.
One of my most memorable experiences was with a (secretly, but who had told me) straight model who was trying to cum in a group show, when his second monitor was not working (no straight porn). Another person in the room was typing comments that were making it tough for him to concentrate, so I started sending whispers in CAPS and told him to just read mine...... I managed to talk about breasts and female parts for a good five minutes, and he did cum. It was fun.
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Many of these are understandably reluctant to tell you "I'm straight dude, so please let me concentrate..." And they should not accept a PVT for a cum show unless they truly THINK they will be successful.
One of my most memorable experiences was with a (secretly, but who had told me) straight model who was trying to cum in a group show, when his second monitor was not working (no straight porn). Another person in the room was typing comments that were making it tough for him to concentrate, so I started sending whispers in CAPS and told him to just read mine...... I managed to talk about breasts and female parts for a good five minutes, and he did cum. It was fun.
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I realize that there are straight guys here that do gay thing to make money as a cam model so when I encounter them I try to make them as comfortable as possible and send them messages that would appeal to them. I’ve seen the ones that try to hide watching porn. One time during a show I could see the porn the guy was watching being reflected off his glasses lol. What I’ll never understand are the guys here that get really hard during private while telling you they will cum soon and then gradually become soft because they are not stroking their dick to stay hard on purpose. Puh-lease I am a man I know how to edge and to stay hard and seem like I’m enjoying myself but there are some things a male cannot hide like the pleasure sensation of masturbating before cumming unless he cummed lots of times already then it’s not as enjoyable I understand that. What I definitely don’t get are the models that will go offline for the day soon and they say they did not cum today or since three days ago and that they will cum for you in private and you are their last costumer and they just simply don’t do it. They will have plenty of time to recharge before their next shift starts it boggles my mind. What I really do appreciate though are all the models that were honest with me and the ones that reached out to me to right their wrongs when they lied to me during private show. Those are the models that I will visit again because they have built my trust in them through good rapport
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That is why you stick to the rivers and streams you know. There are many models I trust 100% and give an excellent performance every time. Of course it is fun to explore new performers but it is the risk you take, just move on if the goods are not delivered. imho.
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I will never revisit a model again who is tipped to cum and then doesn't. Too many times in the last couple of weeks. This is sad and shows a despiration for money. I'm sorry your circumstances are difficult.
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I ve never expected one unless I cam, make a deal, and then should buy your vid. Party chats are open and whichever goes at Models' choice and has usually established, regulars should know, what/when/if there' ll be a cum shot or not. The general idea is not to 'give ' away. Generosity is cool and marketable smart, once in a while, however to be disappointed for not isn't copastetic. For a Model to advertise or make verbal agreements and not follow through is Bad business and Don't return.
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Yeah, a guy can fake a build up, yeah, after a few times all he may have left is an orgasmic body however hardly any visible shot in the hopper, if the decision is made by the model to blow off the cum shot as opposed to a back jack if session ending, I gotta go with the model, no pain or damage. Etc. Of course, if the Model flat on out has a 'take the creds and see ya ' scam working, then no see him later, bill him for non completion of verbal by posting your opinions once in his own room, and/or just simply asking what gives. These guys get burned so much and slowly get used to getting small percent rewards for their performances and desrvance on the whole scheme of cam session performing. Not trying to justify his failed part of perceived bargain, just smart to make sure/request agreement there is one.
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Guys please do not tell your customers that you will give them a cum show when you discuss it with them before a private show and during a live private show. If you don’t feel that you can cum and if you cummed already multiple time in one day just tell your customer that you are unable to deliver at the moment. That’s so much better than lying to your customer and telling them that you will cum and then not doing it. Faking an orgasm is the worst move you can possibly try in live private chat so it is better to just be honest with your customers. Your male customers will be able to tell when your faking as a man can not hide an orgasm. Because we all know a man cums during an orgasm. Just be honest with your customers concerning this type of request and you will have more satisfied customers that will probably have more repeat shows with you. It is better to be honest if you can’t deliver at the moment than to lie or fake an orgasm and lose a valuable customer forever.
Also some users must understand that although this is our work and we enjoyed doing it, the restoration of tissues so that it is from an erection and therefore we can practice masturbation and consequently ejaculation, with this I want to remind you that the human body has a physiology and that they ask cum in 2 seconds should also be careful with that ... also many models to generate some resources are to say that if they do not know that they will not do it Quote
Also some users must understand that although this is our work and we enjoyed doing it, the restoration of tissues so that it is from an erection and therefore we can practice masturbation and consequently ejaculation, with this I want to remind you that the human body has a physiology and that they ask cum in 2 seconds should also be careful with that ... also many models to generate some resources are to say that if they do not know that they will not do it Quote
Also some users must understand that although this is our work and we enjoyed doing it, the restoration of tissues so that it is from an erection and therefore we can practice masturbation and consequently ejaculation, with this I want to remind you that the human body has a physiology and that they ask cum in 2 seconds should also be careful with that ... also many models to generate some resources are to say that if they do not know that they will not do it
Yes that is why I like to have discussion with the model for time and price before a cum show. Asking a guy to cum in 2 sec is very unrealistic I know this but other customers may not. This is also why I like to know what the model did that day so I ask questions so that I know how they are feeling and if they feel like doing this kind of show for me. The downside is that some models will lie and tell customers they can cum when they really don’t plan on doing it for them. I also think that some guys really feel that they can cum multiple times for many customers and some of them bite off more than they can chew. So when a model tells me they cum multiple times already I understand because I’m a guy and I know how it feels after ejaculating multiple times in one day it doesn’t feel as good and a guy needs a resting period after multiple ejaculations within a short timeframe of maybe an hour or even a whole day from masturbating before it feels good to cum again. I don’t understand these customers that just hit start private and then ask for a cum show and they don’t know how the model feels I’d never just hit start private without having a discussion first. I really appreciate models that are honest when I request this kind of private show. Quote
Too many times Models work for free in cams, deliver in party cams and get stiffed anyway. Make arrangements with model at beginning and keep your end; non deliverance deserves a no return, refund or part of, and a let the user beware. You're talking about a very small percentage of Models that may pull that. All the Models I've dealt with have been standup in this regard and generally ready, lol, to want to go again. Fantasy acting/performing is that; help you to achieve your desires/goals... achieving a cum can be a bonus, completion of yours, assist in your own cum etc. Trying not to spoil a fantasy , helps not to think about aspect that longer the jerk, more credits and more anticipation of a cum, harder your own, etc.
If all else fails, you know, if you want and can, add more money to the till. Quote
If all else fails, you know, if you want and can, add more money to the till. Quote
Too many times Models work for free in cams, deliver in party cams and get stiffed anyway. Make arrangements with model at beginning and keep your end; non deliverance deserves a no return, refund or part of, and a let the user beware. You're talking about a very small percentage of Models that may pull that. All the Models I've dealt with have been standup in this regard and generally ready, lol, to want to go again. Fantasy acting/performing is that; help you to achieve your desires/goals... achieving a cum can be a bonus, completion of yours, assist in your own cum etc. Trying not to spoil a fantasy , helps not to think about aspect that longer the jerk, more credits and more anticipation of a cum, harder your own, etc.
If all else fails, you know, if you want and can, add more money to the till.
I don’t know what the percentage is for models that lie and models that are honest. I just know that I was lied to by more than one model, two times in a group with other users the model lied to us all, and I’ve also had good experiences with models that do keep their word. The model can make things even worse for themselves if the model labels a group show as cum show and makes the promise themselves to cum for specific amount of credits and then does not keep their word. So it’s a chance that we all are taking when we ask for cum show. I just love that costumer service will give you a refund when a model is being a liar or acting strange in private. Quote
If all else fails, you know, if you want and can, add more money to the till.
I don’t know what the percentage is for models that lie and models that are honest. I just know that I was lied to by more than one model, two times in a group with other users the model lied to us all, and I’ve also had good experiences with models that do keep their word. The model can make things even worse for themselves if the model labels a group show as cum show and makes the promise themselves to cum for specific amount of credits and then does not keep their word. So it’s a chance that we all are taking when we ask for cum show. I just love that costumer service will give you a refund when a model is being a liar or acting strange in private. Quote
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Male models are males. Most males cannot cum on command. I don't consider it a true "promise," just because.
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A Man can definitely cum on command I know this because I’m a man. What I’m about to explain is mainly to help FEMALE customers that aren’t aware of this so they can be more knowledgeable of the MALE sexual stimuli of the penis. What some male models do but not all is edge ( edging is orgasm control). That is when a guy masturbates ( stroking his dick) to reach a high level of sexual arousal and when he feels himself getting close to experiencing an orgasm or climax (cum release or ejaculation) he uses his fingers on the part of his cock that’s not as sexually sensitive to seem like he is masturbating for a long period of time. If you watch closely a guy that is good at edging will alternate his hand on the sensitive and not so sensitive parts of his penis to stay hard. The most sensitive part of the penis is the head, and Just below the V shaped part of the front of the penis head is EXTREMELY sexually sensitive, also foreskin can be sexually sensitive for guys that are uncut (not circumcised). So when you see a guy mainly stroking his cock way below his penis head then he is masturbating not to cum for you or just taking up time during private to cum near the end. Every man can cum on command within a reasonable amount of time when he wants to but some of these guys just choose not to even when you pay them to perform this request.
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A Man can definitely cum on command I know this because I’m a man. What I’m about to explain is mainly to help FEMALE customers that aren’t aware of this so they can be more knowledgeable of the MALE sexual stimuli of the penis. What some male models do but not all is edge ( edging is orgasm control). That is when a guy masturbates ( stroking his dick) to reach a high level of sexual arousal and when he feels himself getting close to experiencing an orgasm or climax (cum release or ejaculation) he uses his fingers on the part of his cock that’s not as sexually sensitive to seem like he is masturbating for a long period of time. If you watch closely a guy that is good at edging will alternate his hand on the sensitive and not so sensitive parts of his penis to stay hard. The most sensitive part of the penis is the head, and Just below the V shaped part of the front of the penis head is EXTREMELY sexually sensitive, also foreskin can be sexually sensitive for guys that are uncut (not circumcised). So when you see a guy mainly stroking his cock way below his penis head then he is masturbating not to cum for you or just taking up time during private to cum near the end. Every man can cum on command within a reasonable amount of time when he wants to but some of these guys just choose not to even when you pay them to perform this request.
I found your post absolutely fascinating, Luv2flirt! Your descriptions are clearly written. I've gotten an education.
While I understand more, I have seen male performers unable to orgasm in a group or party no matter what he tries. Being one of the female customers you refer to, I'm sympathetic to the difficulties of getting over that final "hurdle" on demand. Fortunately for female models, faking it isn't much of a problem. But I agree if promises are made and are not kept from either intention or inability, a customer should be compensated by a return of funds or maybe a show code.
I can't speak for other female customers, but for me the jerkoff/cum shows are of little interest. What I look for is a connection, and I either feel it or I don't. It's obvious early on so I can settle in or leave. With a cum show, it could take the whole show before it's clear expectations won't be met (where the helpful description comes in
). It's always disappointing to get set for a show of any kind and have it go awry. Fortunately, there are performers here who are honest about their own limitations, abilities, and willingness to do and be what we need. We can avoid the others.
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I found your post absolutely fascinating, Luv2flirt! Your descriptions are clearly written. I've gotten an education.
While I understand more, I have seen male performers unable to orgasm in a group or party no matter what he tries. Being one of the female customers you refer to, I'm sympathetic to the difficulties of getting over that final "hurdle" on demand. Fortunately for female models, faking it isn't much of a problem. But I agree if promises are made and are not kept from either intention or inability, a customer should be compensated by a return of funds or maybe a show code. I can't speak for other female customers, but for me the jerkoff/cum shows are of little interest. What I look for is a connection, and I either feel it or I don't. It's obvious early on so I can settle in or leave. With a cum show, it could take the whole show before it's clear expectations won't be met (where the helpful description comes in
). It's always disappointing to get set for a show of any kind and have it go awry. Fortunately, there are performers here who are honest about their own limitations, abilities, and willingness to do and be what we need. We can avoid the others. Quote
